I fly often, and being a larger person, I’ve learned that the only way to travel comfortably — and without infringing on others — is to buy two seats. I usually book a window seat and the one beside it, and it’s made flying much easier for everyone involved.

On a recent flight, I settled into my usual setup when a woman came down the aisle with her child. Without saying a word, she placed her child in the empty seat next to me — the one I’d paid for.

I calmly explained that I had purchased both seats for personal space. Instead of understanding, she grew loud and upset, insisting her child needed that seat more than I did. Her protests drew attention from other passengers and the crew.

Trying to stay calm, I gently reminded her again that I had paid for both seats. When that didn’t help, I called over a flight attendant and explained the situation. The attendant firmly confirmed that I was within my rights and politely asked the woman to move, which she eventually did.

The situation was stressful, but it reminded me why I always plan ahead. It’s not just about comfort — it’s about respecting others’ space and making travel smoother for everyone.